Making New Friends

Making new friends is pretty much the goal for everyone during high school. Whether you're just starting out at Brigidine in Year 7 or you're new or you're at the end of the road in Year 12, having friends is such an important aspect of school. We see the same faces every day for six years and having people who you know will be there for you to chat or just to say hi, makes all the difference.

Everyone has some type of struggle through high school or the 'teen years' and having a group or just one person you know will stand by you through thick and thin, can make you feel so much more comfortable around school. If things go a bit pear shaped with your friends, there is always someone waiting to get to know you.

When you're making new friends, you don't need to impress anyone or change who you are. Being yourself is how you find the people who will be a real friend to you. If they are a person who will be beneficial in your life, they will accept and love you for the amazing person you are.

It is important to remember that friends come and go, as scary and sad it can seem it's just how our world works! People change and you never know what will happen. Don't let this scare you when you make new friends though, jump into the unknown and have a good time with good people. Also cherish the relationships you have now because memories are really the only things that will never leave you. At the end of the day, friends may come and go but the fun times you share can never be forgotten.

Finding new people to hang out with is a thing where it is totally up to you who you invest your own time and effort in. Be picky, it's your decision and that is to be respected. If you feel uncomfortable for any reason in a friendship, it is okay to ask someone you trust for help. It should not be a chore!

When you find your friends or make new ones, it is one of the best feelings knowing you've got buddies who you connect with and that you've let into your own little world.

I hope you have gained something from this and if you're looking for new friends, good luck and have fun!

Written by Eliza Hansen.